The Origin Story
It’s gotta be told
The name "The Original Baddie" holds a deeply personal origin story that speaks to the impact we have on others without even realizing it. I was completely unaware of how personal and important the story was until I responded to an amazing prompt by
asking about publication origin stories. Thank you for your note that prompted me to respond.
Author in the grips of her industrial writer-lution
During a chance encounter at an art show curated by a childhood friend who I would always connect with during summers in Martha's Vineyard, I was affectionately introduced as The Original Baddie, a title that stemmed from his appreciation for my kindness and care during our shared summers long ago. We loudly reunited in front of a whole room shocked that we just ran into each other when he resides in Oakland, CA and I in MA. It had been at most a decade, since we had seen each other.
He told me the opportunity to curate this art show, garnering the attention of the popular art scene in Providence was because of my genuineness, my authenticity and my ability to hold space for him as a cancer survivor once over then, but twice over by the art show.
Those summers together aided in his survival, allowing him to make a loving scene with me in front of a very large crowd of people in awe of what he curated with a talented artist. That love turned into rhythmic music that got people dancing. The vibe of that show was altered for the better and I was changed forever.
Honestly, now that I’m writing this that was likely the turning point for me that it was time for me to acknowledge my own special gifts, talents and impact on people. It was time to set the imposter syndrome aside because what I offer the world matters and I didn’t need to question that anymore.
A few months later, I became intentional about my writing, intertwined writing classes in my Masters program and just started whole-heartedly believing in my writing.
This poignant moment served as a reminder of the lasting effects of our behaviors and attitudes on those around us.
It’s those honest and vulnerable moments that change the course of our life.
As someone named Badiana, a name that often drew comments for its ‘uniqueness’ and beauty, the evolution of the term "Baddie" to represent confidence and strength resonated deeply with me. Embracing this new definition allowed me to reclaim my identity and celebrate my resilience in the face of adversity. The journey from childhood nickname to empowering publication title is a testament to the power of self-acceptance and the influence we have on shaping our own narratives.
Now, press play, and come dance with this Baddie.
You Matter.